From the conversations and teachings of the elder Zosima, the hero of the book of F. M. Dostoevsky "The Brothers Karamazov":
“At every day and hour, at every moment, go near yourself and look after yourself, so that your image will be splendid.
So you passed a small child, went angry, with a nasty word, with an angry soul; you did not notice, maybe a child, but he saw you, and your image, unsightly and unholy, maybe in his defenseless heart remained. You did not know this, and perhaps you already threw the wrong seed into it, and it will increase, perhaps, and all because you didn’t save yourself before children, because you didn’t bring up a careful, active love.
Brothers, love is a teacher, but you need to be able to acquire it, because it is hard to get, expensive to buy, long work and after a long time, because not for a moment only the accidental must be loved, but for the whole term. And by chance, everyone can love, and the villain will love. "
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